A Piper at a Funeral

[Blu (Ontario)]

... So at the end of the service, he played "Amazing Grace" on the pipes!...

A wonderful tribute. At such services, nothing touches the heart quite like the pipes.

...I didn't want to (wear a kilt) as none of that side of the family has really seen me in a kilt and I didn't want to draw attention away from my mom's sister's funeral.

I have worn kilts (traditional tartan kilt with argyle jacket + tie) to several funerals.... always with utmost dignity, and solemnity. It has never - ever - been taken as trying to draw attention way from the occasion. I have, in fact, been thanked, and more than once, for making the effort to show such respect.

Increasingly, people seem to be showing up at funrals in anything from blue jeans to running shoes. That, in my view, shows a lack of respect.

How you carry yourself, your mannerisms and demeanor, reveals the truth from your heart.... the kilt is only a traditional piece of clothing, but one that worn properly, shines with respect. I can't think of a more dignified to show it.

Something I hope everyone would understand.

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[Frank McGrath]

My mother had 9 siblings, of which 4 are still with us. I wish that someone had thought of a piper for at least one of the services. I had no control over Mom's funeral. But , every time I hear Amazing Grace, I know she is smiling. It was her favorite Hymn. May God be with all who have lost loved ones. Peace be with you all.