thank you thank you your all great i was thinking tha tux also,but wanted to make sure,he is the ring bearer so i think it would be best to wear the tux shirt,my sister mailed the shirt and kilt so i dont want to upset her although im sure she wont care shes in scotland anyway lol,wee sean does love his kilt though as you can see from the pics ill bring the jocobite shirt along so he can change out of the tux one if it anoying him thanks again