Unless she's the bread winner in the family, has she really "given-up" anything in this deal.

Let's put together a fair counter-offer,

for me to give up kilts, I want:

1. UNLIMITED SEX (that ought to put a stop to this nonsense right there )
2. She needs to wear clothing of MY choosing (I don't care if I don't know what colors go together)
3. She must massage any and all muscles rendered uncomfortable due to pants at the end of everyday (no time limit).
4. I get ultimate say on all decisions she is faced with.
5. The basement and garage are MY domain and my rules reign.
6. and a Harley


Now that we've established the other end of the negotiation, we can start being reasonable.

Kilts may not be as important to you as others and it may not be the hill you want to die on, but good luck with it.