I think if you have gone to the trouble of dressing well then that is a compliment you have paid to the company you are in. Look at the trouble women go to - new dress and shoes, visit the hairdresser, slap on the make-up, paint the nails, and what do men usually do, shower if they're lucky, throw on jeans and a T-shirt and they're ready. That is disrespectful. Take a little trouble and look good and everybody will respect you for it.