I would like your opinion

[gilmore]

Everyone seems to agree on this one. Charcoal with red flashes it is. Thanks all.

I don't agree at all. I have never heard anyone authoritatively say that hose should match jacket or shirt. In fact, IME most attempt to match the hose with the predominant color of the kilt.

As to diced hose, you can get them here http://www.jhiggins.net/catalog/hose_diced.html in time for the wedding and in red and green, though they might not last much longer than the wedding day.