Event this Saturday... What to wear?

[Panache]

Because of the negativism often displayed on this site with regard to conforming to expected dress standards (as in the example above) could some one please tell me if this is due to a knee jerk refusal to be told what to do, a lack of understanding the "how's and why's" of conforming to dress standards, or is it down to a basic economic argument because someone does not own the proper "gear"?

I have to say it is something I don't understand as well. I think that one should dress to the best of one's ability in proper attire for a situation.
I think very well of Crusty for trying his best to come up with an outfit that is appropriate for this party and it sounds like he has come up with a very nice one.

Kilts are certainly handsome and distinctive garments. I am fortunate in that over the last couple of years I have been able to assemble in my modest wardrobe enough accessories that I have outfits for almost any occasion.

I think that if the choice is between wearing a suit/sportcoat and pants well or a kilted outfit poorly I would much rather wear the former.

There is a place for individuality in one's dress, but one cannot forget either the rules of Fashion or the requirements of polite society.

Cheers

Jamie