When faced with a dilemma, choose both

[Rex_Tremende]

Hmm... Photographers at weddings are supposed to be unobtrusive. But on the other hand, since it's volunteer work, I'd say you might be entitled to a liberty or two.

Regards,
Rex.

[Panache]

Hmm... Photographers at weddings are supposed to be unobtrusive.

If you were a guest I would say wear the kilt, as a photographer I feel Rex has a point here:

Hmm... Photographers at weddings are supposed to be unobtrusive.

I would wear the suit, look professional, and be an asset to the wedding party (that was your gift to them after all).

Cheers

Jamie