Forgive my bluntness...but her comments, to my mind, show not her disdain for the kilt but more for you. The kilt is a noble and stylish garment and I think she is just using it as an excuse to heap abuse on you. My advice is to tell mother to sell her line of crap elsewhere and stand up for yourself. Tell her that you will be damned if you allow her grandson to witness a complete lack of respect and dignity shown to his father. Tell her that her insulting behavior and bigoted slurs just show her grandson how truly ignorant she is and you wont have him brought up in a enviroment of intolerance and stupidity. She wants to evict you? fight her. She wants to fire you for being proud of your kilt? Quit and tell her to find a new whipping boy.

She sounds like a lonely and bitter woman and as hard as it sounds, she needs to be left alone so as not to poison you or your son. What is more shameful..your kilt and pride or her bile spewing diatribes and lack of respect?