It's not as big a deal to me as it is to her, so I defer. I'll be content enough either way; she's also not horribly used to the kilt, as I just got it. I'm breaking her in slowly. By the wedding day, she might just get the notion that as another one of my (several) eccentricities, this is just a part of me. Her opinion might change in favour, but I'm not hopeful of that. In any case, she knows she can't and won't actively forbid much of me... my acquiescence is out of respect to her.

David, I'd love if you could PM me some pics, if you are willing. I love the look, and maybe if she sees how nice it can look she'll be more apt to change her mind. I don't have a PC at the moment, so I can't show her with myself ;)

Congrats on your fast-approaching wedding, MacDaibhidh! I trust you'll be posting pics on XMarks?