I said Traditional for the first kilt, this is just my opinion, but I think since wearing a kilt can and does center you out that wearing a kilt that is more recognizable by the general public as a kilt would help at first. The other thing is that a Traditional kilt can go from very casual to ultra formal for an example of that check out this thread.

http://www.xmarksthescot.com/forum/1...485#post719485