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    One of the reasons I gave up alcohol is because I want to live longer, life is too short to waste time in a drunken stupor or nursing a hangover, yet when we are younger we fail to appreciate this.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cessna152towser View Post
    One of the reasons I gave up alcohol is because I want to live longer, life is too short to waste time in a drunken stupor or nursing a hangover, yet when we are younger we fail to appreciate this.
    Respectfully, though, not everyone who enjoys a wee dram or a pint now & then is a drunkard.

    I would suggest that this topic is a bit like other "hot topics" such as religion and politics -- perhaps it would be best to leave it to other venues and forums and respect the differences of opinions on this subject?

    Sincerely,

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    I don't think so.

    Many of us who wear kilts don't drink. Nonetheless, many kilt nights and other kilted events are held in bars, pubs, etc. We sometimes have to negotiate not only being in the company of fellow kilt-wearers who are at least tipsy if not quite drunk, and more often are surrounded by people who are emboldened by alcohol to say all sorts of things that we would rather not hear. How many sober women (or men) do kilt checks? Or ask what we are wearing under the kilt? Or spill drinks on our kilts, or our chairs or tables where we get them on our clothes?

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    Quote Originally Posted by gilmore View Post
    I don't think so.

    Many of us who wear kilts don't drink. Nonetheless, many kilt nights and other kilted events are held in bars, pubs, etc. We sometimes have to negotiate not only being in the company of fellow kilt-wearers who are at least tipsy if not quite drunk, and more often are surrounded by people who are emboldened by alcohol to say all sorts of things that we would rather not hear. How many sober women (or men) do kilt checks? Or ask what we are wearing under the kilt? Or spill drinks on our kilts, or our chairs or tables where we get them on our clothes?
    So everyone who drinks is responsible for these instances? Gieusabreak.

    I respect other people's right not to drink, but I do ask for the same to be returned to me if I choose to have a pint or dram. Respect is a two-way street.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cajunscot View Post
    So everyone who drinks is responsible for these instances? Gieusabreak.

    I respect other people's right not to drink, but I do ask for the same to be returned to me if I choose to have a pint or dram. Respect is a two-way street.

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    We are all responsible for our society, our culture and each other. There are some things that are thought by some to be socially acceptable, even an inherent part of Scottish and Irish culture. (In fact there may be something to that in that it is now thought that there is a genetic component to alcoholism that is more prevalent in some ethnic groups than others.) How many drunk Irishmen jokes have you heard? Or drunk Scots jokes? I can think of more than I can count on both hands.

    The point is, contrary to what some hold, it's not necessary to be a drunk, or even to drink, in order to wear a kilt or to be around those who do, whether they are kilted or not.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gilmore View Post
    We are all responsible for our society, our culture and each other. There are some things that are thought by some to be socially acceptable, even an inherent part of Scottish and Irish culture. (In fact there may be something to that in that it is now thought that there is a genetic component to alcoholism that is more prevalent in some ethnic groups than others.) How many drunk Irishmen jokes have you heard? Or drunk Scots jokes? I can think of more than I can count on both hands.

    The point is, contrary to what some hold, it's not necessary to be a drunk, or even to drink, to wear a kilt or to be around those who do, whether they are kilted or not.
    I don't believe I ever said it was, Gil. All I pointed out was that there are different and varied views on this subject, and that all POVs should be respected, and one way to respect them is to agree to disagree.

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    in this part of Scotland getting "steamin" as some put it is a way of life for some folk whether you change the laws or rules isn't going to stop them drinking ,
    i started drink at 15 (unknown to my parents)every friday night myself and my mates would have a few wee ciders as we got older most stopped there is some who take that to the extreme though... but the way i see it if a person wants to drink themselves to death then thats there choice I'm not twisting there arm
    when i had my wee bachelor pad i drank more or less constant for years with my friends but i got to stage where i thought well enough
    is enough
    with Scotland being more multi cultural alot of folk are now realizing you don't have to get wrecked to have a good night out
    at the end of the day Scottish folk will be known for a good few years yet as the" sick man of Europe " this is a tag that will take a long time to get rid of
    alot of folk from around the world forget how industrial this country was most men would have a drink after work sadly that industry died in the 80s for reasons which are more political than anything so i wont go into it

    you can have as many guild lines or laws to stop folks drinking away but
    life's for living why restrict folk that could get hit with a bus tomorrow

    if i want to drink myself stupid then then i will its my right to some guy ina suit who robs us of over paid expenses isn't going to tell me what to do we are our own masters and denying me the right to have a wee drink cos some ejjit cant handle there`s is wrong

    everything in moderation is the keyword

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