Your outfit was very well put together--the consistency in the level of formality of your elements, and, of course, the tartan hose, make for a sober, stunning and tasteful outfit. Your friend sounds like she was a wonderful person. I hope I can find a fraction of that grace at my own passing. You must have a great deal of strength to play at her service--some of which she passed on to you and the others around her...perhaps the best memorial of all. Regards...