Well if you search google images for "goth" you return pages of pages of people dressed all in black. Many with earrings. Some with their heads shaved. I didn't notice any kilt-wearers but if there were you can bet they'd be wearing black kilts. Probably UKs.
So if you really don't want to look goth you should:
1) wear colours,
2) ditch the earrings
3) grow your hair
Or....
Wear a look that pleases you. And accept that your look is somewhat akin to goth.
I'm sure there are worse things out there than getting a thumbs up from a group of goths.













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