I haven't been part of this thread but have been following it, interested in the outcome and on a quick review one thing that does jump out is this -

Quote Originally Posted by jordanjm View Post
There have been countless cases of students not being allowed into school or school dances because of their choice to wear the Kilt. A student from Missouri wore a kilt to a school dance and was forced to change. Soon after, an Internet petition was begun by members of his (Scottish) clan; the principal was required to apologize to the student and allow him to wear his kilt to the following prom.
Be careful here this can come across as a threat. If the purpose is to engage in a positive discussion hopefully in allowing you to attend kilted this might set a wrong tone.

Jim