Alright I accept that things are done a little differently in other parts of the world, but in Scotland it is the brides mother and father,whilst no doubt guided by the bride to be, who are the arbiters of what is or is not worn. As we are talking about the kilt we are, at least, giving some recognition of a Scots connection and there is no way, under any circumstances, would a Scot ever change his tartan kilt for anything else.Nor, would any one even dare ask him to. Scots brides understand that, if they don't, there may well be no wedding!

Now I don't know if your tartan is a family one, if it isn't, then alright I suppose there is no reason why you could not accede to the wishes of the bride. Apart from being dressed in some travesty of a kilt such as the one in the picture -----and that awful tie!Sorry I can't help it!.