
Originally Posted by
Tobus
Amen! Other lost courtesies include opening doors for ladies, helping a lady into and out of the car, helping a lady into and out of her coat, pulling the chair to seat a lady at the table, rising when a lady enters or leaves, etc. And there are even special rules of etiquette for those of us who have wives with very long hair.
I daresay that almost no one knows these courtesies any more, and will give you strange looks if you exercise them. But on the rare occasion that a woman recognizes the courtesy and expresses her appreciation, it's worth it.
Unfortunately, some extreme feminists decried this behavior as just another way to oppress women and men became a little "gun shy".
Personally, I will hold a door for ANYONE, but especially those who might need a little help (elderly, disabled, etc.). For me, it's just being polite, but it's also amazing how many people don't even consider it.
We're fools whether we dance or not, so we might as well dance. - Japanese Proverb
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