The June wedding I am attending is at 4:00 PM--big, formal, High Church affair. The reception is slated to offically start at 6:30--even bigger, country club setting. This is NOT going to be a "stuffy" social gathering by any stretch; it will be a great time all the way around, and if this family's past weddings are any indication (and they are), it will last well into the wee hours.

Do I wear my venerable black Argyll or my new Lovat Grey jacket?

Yes, I know. Split the difference and wear charcoal gray. Unfortunately, I have the two bookends but not the book.

Thoughts?

Al