I've taken to having my ties altered to make them work. I started out just having the offending narrow end cut off, but that ended up with too much of the wide end forced into the knot. I have since had them shortened on both the wide and narrow ends so that the knot remains close to it's proper place in the tie while eliminating the problem of of extra length. If you buy your ties at a good price the extra charge for alteration is not too prohibitive. If you know someone who sews, all the cheaper. I've found good bargains at The Tie Bar here http://www.thetiebar.com/

Best of luck.