Sorry to hear that.

It may not be be a question of being lucky. For me it is simply a fact that my wife loves me (also when) kilted.
She does occasionally tease me for spending longer time getting ready to go out together (as I also have longer hair than her), though. In discussing kilts, she loves to point out the masculinity of the kilt. And, last but not least, she gets a kick out of the attention I get from other women - "jepp, he is my guy!"

OK, maybe I am a little lucky