solstice,

You mentioned that she originally thought you would look sexy in a kilt. You purchased a modern Amerikilt. Is it possible that what she had in mind was very different than what you had in mind. In the "Show Us Your Pictures" forum there are three threads showing X Markers in Formal, Dressy, and Casual outfits. Why don't you show her these and see if there is a kilt look she likes. Maybe she would encourage you to go for a more traditional look.

Just a thought

Good Luck

Jamie