Thanks for the support gentlemen. I'd been crying at the drop of a hat since she announced it. About two hours ago, she came to me and we sat down and talked. I'm confused, but we're seemingly going to work it out. We talked about things that we need to work on in our relationship if we're going to stay together, and well, that's as much detail as I'll go into about it on a public forum.

I will say that there's some trepidation mixed in with the joy that we're still together. A certain sense of less trust. I'm hoping that will heal. I'm still going to be a bit more scarce than I have been lately, as I have some other things I need to take care of, like a kilt that's almost finished. (my first kilt with pockets. 8 of them, made with several different techniques. It's my "pocket prototype" kilt.)


Relieved, confused, still wounded, but hopefully healing both my self and my marriage, and building a couple of kilts at the same time. Life is a rollercoaster.