Quote Originally Posted by Yaish View Post
A community is made of it's members. Make them "leave themselves at the door" too much and the members just stop going.

That's not a criticism, just a fact.
I wouldn't disagree with what you've stated. However, the actual fact is you failed to read the entire comment that Panache quoted. Allow me to repeat it, as it bears consideration -

Rex Tremende made a wise comment once about how the price we pay to be part of this great place is that we sometimes have to leave a part of ourselves at the door.
So you see, at no time did anyone say, or suggest that members must 'leave themselves at the door', as you suggested. Rather members should have the ability to leave a part of themselves at the door.

Suddenly, it all makes great sense, doesn't it?