I have never gotten angry. Almost got mad once because it was a man, and he grabbed the front, not the back. That was more scared than mad. I did not know what was gonna be next.

Weird, but I find when I am with people who are expected to be "bad" they tend to be respectful and ask first. It's the "prudes" who seem to take delight in unexpected lifting without asking first. Basically ... if I meet a woman with a skirt who would let me see what's under it, she will never look under without permission. Yet, if it's a woman who would never let me see her's she much more likely to grab, look, and run!

I also prefer to be asked so I can prepare myself. Sometimes I need to adjust a little before sharing a peek.

The only time I denied a request to look under was in a very public park where there were children. It just didn't feel right. She was quite insistent. I just could not do it.