Prom Kilted?

**artificer** · 8th November 10, 04:55 PM

Originally Posted by Kilted Hiker

Oh, any ideas on how to present a good argument to my girlfriend that the kilt is a viable option? Unfortunately she is one of the .00001 percent of women that does not find the kilt attractive.

Sorry dude, but prom AIN'T about you (it's a bit like a mini-wedding- the girl is always right). If your girlfriend hates the kilt you have but two options.

1) find new girlfriend who likes the kilt

2) p@nts.

Sorry mate, but nothing is worse than a cheesed-off prom date who just spent 4 hours on her hair and $$$$$$$$$$ on her dress.

On the upside, if you DO want to find a different girl, the kilt will help

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**lethearen** · 9th November 10, 12:37 PM

It's awesome that you want to wear your kilt to prom. While I do agree that the prom isn't just for the ladies, keep in mind that it's not just for you, either. I think you mentioned that prom isn't a "big thing" for her so you may not have to worry about smashing her dreams, but still... You still have to keep in mind her opinion. If she just doesn't like the kilt but doesn't hate it either, you might be ok. But if she finds it ridiculous, she may feel embarrassed to be with you at prom. You definitely don't want that. Of course you'll have to feel that one out... even if you manage to get her to say it's ok with her, keep in mind that doesn't mean she won't begrudge you or it

Another thing to keep in mind, especially when deciding on whether you're going to ask permission or just show up unannounced. If you are denied entrance because of the kilt, she could be all dressed up with no place to go, as well. Your decision can dramatically affect her evening. So... be prepared. Either have a back-up outfit you can change into, or back-up plans you can fall back on (assuming she really, truly, doesn't mind not going to prom).

In short... I'd say if she has issues with the kilt and she means more to you than just "some girl" you asked to prom, take her feelings into account and wear something more... well... boring

Even if you win the battle of her agreement, you could still leave her unhappy. And if she's unhappy... you're unhappy

**auld argonian** · 9th November 10, 01:07 PM

Having been on the forum through several of these kilt/prom discussions, I'd be really happy if just this once everything would work out to everybody's satisfaction. It'd be great if the girl loved the kilt and the school admins thought that it was a great idea and encouraged you to wear it.

I was chatting with a lady this past Friday who had gone on a trip to Africa to re-connect with her ancestry and took advantage of the trip to pick up some trad ethnic West African duds. Her pictures were fabulous and we both bemoaned the fact that folks don't just wear their ethnic garb more often and that everyone doesn't just dig it.

Best

AA

**Nighthawk** · 9th November 10, 01:24 PM

Originally Posted by auld argonian

Having been on the forum through several of these kilt/prom discussions, I'd be really happy if just this once everything would work out to everybody's satisfaction. It'd be great if the girl loved the kilt and the school admins thought that it was a great idea and encouraged you to wear it.

I was chatting with a lady this past Friday who had gone on a trip to Africa to re-connect with her ancestry and took advantage of the trip to pick up some trad ethnic West African duds. Her pictures were fabulous and we both bemoaned the fact that folks don't just wear their ethnic garb more often and that everyone doesn't just dig it.

Best

AA

That is one of the biggest reasons that I started wearing the kilt full time. I think it's sad that so many of us have lost our roots, and that so few people understand how important our heritage is to those of us who still keep the traditions of our grandparents.

**MacHiram** · 9th November 10, 01:57 PM

Originally Posted by Nighthawk

That is one of the biggest reasons that I started wearing the kilt full time. I think it's sad that so many of us have lost our roots, and that so few people understand how important our heritage is to those of us who still keep the traditions of our grandparents.

Nighthawk, you are so correct. I would only wear my kilt to "special" events and things of that sort but I turned 45 last week and decided to wear it a lot more. Where I am, you don't see that many people in a kilt and I usually hear "where are you going"? and I tell them "no where, I just wear a kilt". That has changed! Now when I leave the house (except for work) 90% of the time, I'm in a kilt and don't plan on changing that!

Kilted Hiker: I wish you the best and hope 1. you do it or 2. they let you do it. As far as your girlfriend, she needs to be educated about what our herritage means to you. I was able to convince my son's fiance and when they get married (in a couple of years) the whole wedding party is kilted. Good luck, Lad!!

**Squeaky McMurdo** · 9th November 10, 02:03 PM

I ended up in the camp (against my will!) where my mom got to pick out every detail of my prom and wedding. It sucked. I would give anything to go back in time and tell her to stick it in her ear.

*sigh*

....wonders if nighthawk does vow renewals

**Kilted Hiker** · 9th November 10, 04:20 PM

I'd like to thank everyone who has replied to this thread, you all have helped greatly

I think, in summary I will: Contact the school administraion before hand, and have pictures of a kilt outfit simlilar to what I am going to wear. I think they will give it the thumbs up.

On the girlfriend front, I will ask her before hand, present a good reason to wear a kilt ( family heritage, comfort, personal preference) and see what she thinks.

Hopefully everything will work out! I will probably post pictures of my outfit before hand to get a final check from you guys.