A story of Kilted Attention or: Why I can't go commando!

[piperdbh]

Flirting - no harm no fowl -...

Now chickens are involved?

[Father Bill]

Now chickens are involved?

Of course! Feathered bonnets!

[serenitylala]

Now chickens are involved?

Nice!!!

[Piipriker]

Of course! Feathered bonnets!

This parrot is not dead!

[tundramanq]

Thas a Freudian slip I guess - LOL

[Thorina]

This parrot is not dead!

He's pinning.

[Thorina]

*** to that!!

A+ for good hand positioning!

[Drac]

Your idea of sexual assult and mine must be different.
Sexual assult to me is a forceable deal, not a quick pat on the ****. I don't put a pat on the **** or a boob brush by or someone lifting some pleats as sexual assult. Sorry, I just don't. Our "polite society" has gotten far too thin skinned at what is called abuse these days.

Yes, women get **** grabbed a boob brush or poke, etc, etc, etc all the time. Concerts, subways, trains, buses, elevators, crowded anywhere. Yup, happens all of the time.
Then there's the guys that do it on the sly. Had a dude at church that always had his hands too low while hugging, another would always go for a hug, and do a double boob pass on the way 'round. Both older guys, both prolly thought they were being slick and no one noticed.

There are certain places that it's more prone to happen by drunken merimakers, no harm meant, therefore it shouldn't be made an international incident, IMO.

The places I am speaking of where it's "OK"...ok being a VERY broad term, are not business/professional, G rated places. Generally there is other adult oriented behavior going on.
Skirted or kilted, I'd wear underwear at a concert. If I was a guy and kilted....not sure that I would, though. I'd prolly figure that any lass wanting to see what was under....well, wouldn't want to disappoint the ladies, now would ya?

People have different levels of what they feel is exceptable. I am not a hugger. I do not appricate people laying hands on me without permission. Many people are more open about contact. To each their own.

What strikes me (and my wife) is what part of wearing a kilt says they have the right to do this? If they wouldn't do this with me in jeans why would they with a kilt? I even get uncomfoartable when people ask for pictures. They don't do it with people in saris or other ethnic garb.

And sorry, I don't buy the excuse that "since you're wearing a kilt you asked for this." That doesn't work for a woman or a man period. I don't deserve this because I wear a kilt nor do I ask for it.

I put up with some attention to a point. It is flattering to be eyed by a lady. It is flattering to have a person complement me on the kilt. I have developed the thick skin you say I should have about the Question. But keep your hands to yourself is my rule and I expect the same of the others.

I also find it disrespectful to my wife if she is with me. I am hers period. To hit on or handle a woman's husband in front of them is asking for a angry reaction and mine is very possesive.

Jim

[Piipriker]

He's pinning.

Silly, silly, silly. Get on with it!

(and don't mention the war)

[tundramanq]

Slow down so I can clip you with my walker - Got a ton of chicken jokes and none suitable for there!