I had not read this thread since it was started, checked in today and wow did it catch fire. There was lots of advice about burying the hatchet and where or whom to bury it in. I see from most of the advice, we are an indepentant and open minded group, prone to our own opinions. Good for us, I say. It kind of makes you wonder about those family members who never attended the family reunions, perhaps they would have been kindred souls, that we share feelings with. Perhaps that is why they never attended. Celtic Cowboy, well played and well done, Sir. You have a fine family and would be welcome at our table anytime. Your son is just too cute in his kilt. I am glad to see that you made your choice and stuck to it. I think that your family would do well to learn some lessons from you. I do not think that those of you who work as Police and EMT's are paid enough, in money or respect. Thank you for all you do and will do. Good Luck with all of your endeavours.

Sathor, I am not sure what to say, I have tried several times to read the letter that your Mom sent. I am sorry to say, I can not make heads or tails of it. As I grew up in Southern Ohio, I can somewhat see what she is talking about regarding the people of the area. " I grew up with some real redneck folks, I can say that "cuz i are one"! I still have family in that area. I wish that I had some sage advice to give, but I don't. Other than stay strong and be yourself. Good Luck. Although I do think that the advice to back away slowly is good advice.